To succeed, we must plan - as the saying goes, "if you fail to plan, you plan to fail." While we plan important life events like weddings, birthdays, and baptisms, we often overlook the critical task of planning for death. Although thinking about one's own and loved ones' death can be distressing, it is an avoidable occurrence that we should prepare for. Avoid common mistakes when organizing a solemn wake with these top 5 tips:
Not telling your family about it
When planning your end-of-life arrangements with a death-care provider; it is crucial to inform your family. Notifying your loved ones serves two purposes: (1.) to be prepared and be aware of your plan, and (2.) to know who to contact and what to do if the event happened. It's also important to listen to what they say and ensure that the service you get will give them the closure they need.
Waiting for a sickness to strike before making plans
Don't wait for illness to strike before planning for end-of-life arrangements. Start now while you have the ability, resources, and strength to make decisions. Avoid the "I'll do it later" mindset because death is unpredictable. Planning shouldn't be triggered by sickness but rather by a desire to ease future burdens and uncertainties.
Not clarifying your final wish
Filipinos value "habilin" because we believe fulfilling our loved ones' last wishes will bring them peace. Writing down your last wishes may be uncomfortable, but it will help your family know what you want. If you don't plan, your family may oppose your funeral wishes.
Here are some ways you could make your last wishes known:
1. Tell your family directly. Chat with them. This way, they will know about your plans and wishes. It may be tough, but it's crucial to fulfill you last wishes.
2. Confide in a trusted friend who can act as a mediator. Since they know your plan, they can assist in carrying it out.
3. Write a will and an end-of-life plan. This will give you a clear idea of what you want when the time comes. This may also let your family know your plans for your properties and other assets. Consult a lawyer to ensure that your last wishes are legally binding and properly executed.
Not sticking to the budget
It's usual for people to squander on unneeded things when planning a funeral because it can be an emotional experience—making funeral arrangements after a loved one has passed away frequently results in rash choices and extravagance.
However, planning ahead and creating a budget can manage expenses and stop overspending. People can guarantee that their loved one receives a meaningful send-off without going over budget by budgeting for funeral costs in advance.
Not considering all other options
To create a solid funeral plan, thorough research and consultation with experts are crucial. It's essential to explore all options, including non-traditional ones like cremation. Doing so will provide the necessary knowledge and freedom to make informed decisions and avoid common mistakes. Contact us for assistance with your funeral planning needs.
Death can be emotionally, physically, financially, and mentally draining, so it's important to have the right plan. No matter how much money you have in the bank or how many people are willing to help you through this hard time, none of it will matter if you don't know what to do
If you fail to plan, you will definitely plan to fail.
If you plan now, free yourself from emotional, physical, and financial burdens. Remember, an ounce of prevention is better than a pound of cure; you will not know when death will happen, so be ready and be prepared. You matter to us, so we're here to help, call us now.
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