In Filipino culture, letting go of a loved one is never easy as it is a deeply personal journey. Cremation provides a dignified and respectful way to honor our departed, but the question often arises: Where can we keep them close? For many families, the answer lies within the familiar embrace of home. Learn how to create a beautiful and meaningful resting place for your loved one's urn , with some help from Dearly Departed.
Finding a perfect Spot: A Warm Embrace of Memories
Imagine a corner bathed in sunlight, where laughter once echoed with your loved one. Perhaps it's a quiet nook in their bedroom, a haven for treasured moments. The ideal location should evoke happy memories and offer a sense of peace for your family. Consider these factors:
Accessibility: Ensure the space is easily accessible for family members who wish to visit and pay their respects.
Significance: Does the location hold special meaning for your loved one or your family?
Serene Ambiance: Is the area free from clutter and conducive to quiet reflection?
Additional Considerations
Choosing the Urn: The urn you choose should complement the overall design and feel of the space. Consider the size, material, and style that best reflects your loved one's personality. Many companies offer beautiful urns in various styles.
Safety and Security: If displaying the urn in a prominent location, consider using a small shelf or cabinet to ensure it's stable and secure.
Here are some of the common choices where Filipino families keep the urn of their departed loved one at home:
Living Room: A central and communal space where family members often gather.
Bedroom: For those who wish to keep their loved one close and private.
Home Altar: Many Filipino homes have a prayer corner or altar, making it a fitting spot for the urn.
Personal Touches: Weaving a Tapestry of Love
Once you have chosen the spot, you can transfrom it into a loving sanctuary. Here are some ideas to make it extra special:
A Gallery of Love: Surround the urn with photographs that capture your loved one's essence – a mischievous grin, a warm embrace, a moment of pure joy.
Treasures from the Heart: Display cherished keepsakes – a favorite book, a piece of jewelry they always wore, or a handwritten note filled with love. Dearly Departed offers a beautiful selection of urns, crafted to complement any décor and seamlessly integrate with your personalized touches.
A Serene Sanctuary: Light a calming candle or place a vase filled with fresh flowers for a touch of nature's beauty.
Incorporating Cultural Elements
Incorporating cultural and religious elements can make the space feel more sacred. This can include:
Religious Icons: Statues or images of saints, the Virgin Mary, or other religious symbols.
Prayer Items: Rosaries, prayer books, and other items used during prayer.
Traditional Decorations: Items that reflect Filipino culture and traditions, such as woven mats, native crafts, or traditional textiles.
Creating a Legacy of Love: A Shared Journey
The process of creating this space can be a beautiful way for families to come together and share stories. Each contribution, a memory or a chosen item, deepens the connection and ensures your loved one's memory lives on.
Involve the Family: Encourage everyone to contribute their ideas and memories. Let the space reflect the collective love and respect for your loved one.
Maintain the Space: Regularly dusting the area, changing the flowers, and lighting candles demonstrates ongoing respect.
Respect Individual Beliefs: Open communication and mutual respect are key. Some may prefer a more discreet location for the urn, while others may find comfort in a prominent display.
Dearly Departed: Honoring Every Memory
At Dearly Departed, we understand the importance of honoring your loved one's memory in a way that feels personal and respectful. We are committed to providing families with respectful and dignified cremation services. We offer a wide selection of urns, including designs that incorporate Filipino cultural elements, to help you create a beautiful and meaningful resting place for your loved one.
Our compassionate team is here to guide you through every step of the process, from selecting the perfect urn to creating a space that reflects your loved one's spirit. We can also answer any questions you may have about cremation and aftercare.
Remember, your loved one's memory is a precious treasure. By creating a special resting place in your home, you keep their memory alive and ensure they remain a cherished part of your family's story. Let Dearly Departed help you create a haven where it can continue to shine brightly within your home.
Ready to create a lasting tribute? Contact Dearly Departed today for a free consultation.
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